Which is a good dependency for you?
What do you depend on and you know it is good?
Did you come from a dysfunctional family? Will you stop the damage dynamics involved? How shame develops and how to solve it?
Are the feelings of others more important than your own? Do you tend to suppress your feelings? How politics and religion manipulate this?
Do you place the unhealthy wants of others before your own? When is help really help? Will you avoid the tendency of codependence?